As you may have read the weeks leading up to his wedding where rough, on me personally and apparently on him as well. It seem all we did last month was fight over stupid stuff. The more I tried to avoid him the harder he pushed, it was if he wanted me to tell him not to get married, not to screw up his life more then he already has...NOT going to happen and I said that to him!
He confessed he wasn't sure he wanted to get married but couldn't call it off cause everything was planned and paid for, he didn't understand why no one in his family was going attend (for year he blamed his family issues on me...surprise!)
Anyways back to today, I will admit I was nerves on how I would feel seeing him, I had some meeting with lawyers since we had last seen or talked and there was some things in our "communication" book that we need to hatch out.
So I wrote out what I though we could change to make both of our lives easier.
To my shock, he texted me an hour after pick up and agreed to everything BUT spousal support 😳😮
He was completely calm and collective, we talked it all out and came up with things we both could live with!!!!
Ya, I knew spousal support was never going to happen with out us seeing a judge, but the fact he actually thought and communicated with me about the others is a huge step.
I'm sure something will change all this, I'm sure his really self will show back up quickly but as long as I can hold that off till we get this in writing and witnesses I may just have to do some ass kissing 👄
But hey, momma has to do what momma has to do to protect her kids!
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