Just as I put my phone down, I hear the dreaded ringtone (you know the one that sound like a warning horn...the most annoying one I have), meaning that my ex has decided that he was ready to ask how his sons appointment went yesterday???
I answered with "good, it was yesterday by the way not today"
"I know but I figured you would be busy and didn't want to bother you!"
Ya what????
It never fails there is always an excuse with him, always a reason he can't be a real dad. But I have the upper hand this time, I took the higher road and left it alone...to some that doesn't seem like a big deal, but anyone who has been reading my blog KNOWS...this is huge for me. This is the shit my ex pulls to get me mad to the point I lose my cool.
What he doesn't know is, that after he didn't contact me yesterday, I have decided its now turned in to a need to know basis. If he doesn't care enough to ask, I won't bother to tell
I don't want to be like this but he has proven yet again, it's all about him!
Now don't get me wrong, if something BAD happens I will contact him, but otherwise it's not worth my time and energy too. Even with big man having teeth pulled today, the mom in me wanted to let him know, but I knew what would happen, but the human in me said "screw him" he's only going to start something I don't have the energy to deal with...so again, I give myself a pat on the back!!!!
P.S. seen the doctor today and got the ball rolling on my surgery...if I do choose to have it!?!? 😁
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