The older boys had their first Cubs meeting last week! Dalton LOVED it, Alex said it was ok but they didn't have any snacks.
My ex did show up to Nathan's appointment last week, which was good. He kind of tried to challenge the doctor about Nathan cat allergy and the dr put him in his place. Nathan is allergic to the cat protien (who knew) so regardless if the cat is kept in the step daughters room he will still have reactions (which has been obvious since he started taking them overnight) my ex asked about medication and the dr explain that yes he could prescribe medication, explained the side effects and the long term effect and apparently his father is ok with this. I on the other hand think its absolutly rediculas that I now need to medicate my child to have a relationship with his father (my hands are tied till we go to court)
Nathan now needs a nasal spray (remember he is 3) 2 days prior to his visits, the days he's there and 2 days after he comes home. SO that means in order for him to spend 30 hrs with his father he needs to be medicated for 6 days PLUS he also now has an inhalour that he may need to use to help keep his airway open if he starts coughing and wheezing...and yes his father is ok with all of this so that he can keep his 23 yr old step daughter happy...sad/angry doesn't even begin to explain my thoughts on all of this. I have so many thoughts going threw my head that it's almost scary to try and put them into scentises. It inferiates me ever time I have to hold my son down (basically hog tie his and squeeze his checks while I stick a nosal up his nastral and spray him with a steroid spray) just because he won't stick up for his children and tell her to grow up.
She's 23 and he's 3....his health and well being is more important then her cat and I don't care what any animal lover says.
When my ex made the comment she maybe moving out next month the dr says "good! But you realize that it will take 4-5 months of good deep cleaning before he will possibly stop having reactions"
I'm filing paperwork this week (was waiting for her to legally change her last name but again these to "wonderful" people can't even get their act together to do that. They have been married for almost 4 months and haven't filed the paper work) with the courts and will ask if there is anyway to rush it due to medical issues. Hopefully the judge will agree with myself and the doctors that this is rediculas and in some ways a form if child endangerment (neglect is the word I want to use)
On another note: we leave in 4 days for our weekend away in Niagria Falls!!!!
We are spending 1 night exploring the fills and it's attractions and the second night we will be at Great Wolf Lodge!!!
I'm super excited, I really have told the boys yet where were going just said we were going way (Dalton thinks were going camping again...haha way to cold at night to sleep Ina tent for this Momma!)
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