Not only do I start my new job Monday,Nathan starts daycare 😁, Tuesday we are off to the allergy doctor to do an oral food challenge for Nathan (I'll admit I'm scared shitless).
My brain is scattered, my emotions are all over the place, and I feel like if one more thing is thrown in my plate right now I may just break down (with all that said, I'm also aware that I will get threw this week and next week and life will become a new normal for us) I just need to let my anxiety ride its course and remember to breath. These are the days where I often wonder if I should still be on my anxiety medication?!?! On a day to day bases I do just fine, then I get week like the lay one and this upcoming one and think...ok I need a little help. I guess this us were the true challenge come in when dealing with medication for anxiety or even depression (its been 5 months and in a whole I'm doing really well...I think?!?!)
As for the custody thing...boy oh boy
I went to the lawyer, at this point if I didn't let the kids go my ex could hold me in contempt if our agreement.
I have to go and file our agreement with the courts (totally new to me??? No one has ever said that before) if they don't accept our agreement (its legal however the paper is called a document not agreement so they may not the lawyer says) then I have to file a motion for a new custody agreement. We can leave everything exactly how it is, but it would have the correct legal wording.
With filing a new motion they will contact my ex by registered letter to inform him of this court date and time. I set him an email Wednesday night to let him know that yes he could pick up the kids and what was happening, which if course lead to the usual well let change this, this and this. 3 hours later and 48 emails and nothing ended up changing?
Should I have just left it and let the judge deal with him...YES but the little things he wants to change are big in my life and honestly I'm not sure how the judge would see it.
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