What's a girl to do....

Today I received a message from a person whom I haven't talked to in almost a year. This time last year I would say she could have been consider a very close friend...almost a best friend (with enough time). 

She was one of the only people in my life that stuck around even threw my separation, she helped me pick up the pieces, put them back together and her and her husband even came over to help me out my house back together!!!

We had a falling out over what I still say was a stupid misunderstanding involving my son. 

She was watching him while I went to a "quick" meeting at work, he was almost 2 and some how, someway got ahold of her husbands laptop and apparently pulled all the keys off the board???

I to this day still don't understand it, have giving myself many headaches trying to figure it....anyways 

I told her that if the tech at his work couldn't fix it I would pay to have it done or replace it (against my better judgement). 

At this point she was so hotheaded that she said some very nasty things about my son, called him a name that under no circumstance any child should ever be called. 

So like I said it blew up from there, she then tells me she felt I was using her for childcare, ect, ect.

Seeing as I am the person that I am, she had an appointment the next day, I sent her a message and said look...I said I would watch "bobby" and I will. Your welcome to still drop him off if you want too. 

She did (of course) and when she came back from her appointment she stayed for about 30 mins after. Those were the most awkward 30 mins if my life! Including the time I went to dinner with my ex, his new girlfriend and the kids!

That was one of the last times I seen or heard from her (because we live in a small community we have run into each other in public)

So this morning I get a message. 

I will admit my heart skipped a beat with anxiety. I was very nerves to read what she had to say. 

To sum it up, she told me she had started going to church again and wanted to apologize for her anger that said day??? 

Basically it was if she was in a 12 step program and she was at that step where you need to confuse your "sin" ( her words not mine) and she felt that in order to be come one with god again she need to contact me????

That was at 9am this morning, it's now 3pm and I'm still not sure what or how to respond. She said I didn't have to answer her back, but again being who I am...I feel I do. 

For my own good! 

I do feel she needs to apologize for what she said about little man. That again she is making it all about her. 

To be completely honest, I do miss talking with her, I miss having another mom who would do stuff with me and little man. I miss seeing her son (she now has a daughter too!)

What am I to do????